Can the love your life be younger than you...?

I am a 32 year old female, who is divorce with no children. I was married for 5 year to someone I was not evenly yoked with. I truly didn't want to be a statistic, but the marriage end leaving me very depressed. I have been single on my own now for 9 months, and have dated a few men around my age 30-40 but, to no avail they're not looking to get married or in at least be in a monogamous relationship. I stopped dating for 4 months when I was shopping a young man (21) came up to me with his boyish good looks and charm making small talk. I took his number, and called, but he quickly went away on a long vacation. However we talked on the phone for 2 months, then he and I recently met for a date. Shortly after, made love repeatedly, it was amazing!!! He is already asking me where is the relationship going? He states he is falling in love with me. I am scared because he is so young, and I want to be in love too, but I am suppose to be the grown up and think logically! With the age difference and maturity thing with me being a female and all I don't want to be his momma. All I want to do I be around him and do what lovers do. He was brought up in the church, we laugh together, he is very affectionate, he is in college, working and in the military like myself. So he has a good foundation. I just need to know am I in over may head. Someone help?