Does anyone agree with my veiws on Christianity?

first and foremost let me state that I do consider myself a christian. Not a very good one I know, but we are all human and, that being said, have our faults. I would also like to state that I don't consider myself a conventional christian, because I have my own views and opinions based on what I have read. The vast majority of christians I see today, sadden me, Christianity is all about love and acceptance, so why do so many 'christians' judge and condemn people? why do 'Christians' hate gays and people that drink and smoke pot? Why do 'christians' try to force their religion down people's throats? As for th first two, the bible states that every one of us are sinners that can be redeemed through the grace of christ. Also, no one sin is greater than any other, people who lead deviant lifestyles don't sin any more than the rest of us, yet they are condemned by the church. In regards to the final question God wants people to come to him willingly. And while I will talk about my christian views and pray for people to accept christ, I don't try to force people to convert, because that is their choice and theirs alone. I also, don't condemn atheists and other religions, because that is their personal choice, if they don't want to be a christian, don't try and force them to. I'm just wondering if anyone supports/understands my views. Also, what are your thoughts on the subject?